Topic: For the Relationship Challenged

[FallinG_StaR]

Hmm...

Female sure... but they are 14 or under... I know exactly what just popped into FallinG's head and NO

Am I that predictable?! XD

They will eventually turn 18...

Well I'm sure some paths will cross... and you'll get your anime loving asian girl of your dreams...

[UruseiNeo]

I need help again T_T

Apparently the healing capacity of expressing myself here was only one week and now I'm depressed again DX

[cata]

Hum... have you ever tried on focusing on something else? Like... a videogame or a sport? Maybe drawing or writting stuff?

[UruseiNeo]

What's bugging me is that I'm stupid enough to still have a ray hope for this one person.

I'd love to confront her so she can just give me a clear "no" except that I have this strong feeling she doesn't feel comfortable talking to me or meeting me.

[foxhead556]

@urusei well if i was you i would just pretty much go straight out and ask her since i wouldn't be able to take having such a heavy block over my shoulders for a extend period of time.

[UruseiNeo]

But if she doesn't want to talk to me, I shouldn't bother her.

It's not that easy to talk to someone you barely talk to to begin with...... especially about serious matters...

[cata]

Would you prefer to hear a "NO" than to feel like you feel now? If so, just man up. If not... well then just shut up. The real problem comes after, no matter which path you choose to follow.

[UruseiNeo]

I went looking around on online dating sites.

Does that make me sad or is it a good sign?

Either way... onilne sites SUCK!

...... Really hard to find one dedicated to anime fans -.-

[FallinG_StaR]

Does it really have to be a girl that likes anime?

I mean, it's good to have things in common but I think you need to start of with something else.

I think I never told I liked anime to my girlfriends (or girls I liked/knew)... Not because I was afraid of being judged (dumped) by them, but, only because we had so many other things in common that liking anime or not was irrelevant.

Btw... Online dating sites... not a good idea. It's full of lies, fake pictures and descriptions... at least it means you're ready to meet new people... if they like anime that is... XD

Good Luck...

[UruseiNeo]

It's important to me because anime tends to be a big part of my life and I need someone who can understand it.

Eventually I would have to tell the girl that I like anime and so what if she disapproved? (Maybe the evil bill will save me from that possibility by putting anime in better light XD)

Still, if that is the case and since I'm not going to change a big part of who I am just cause someone doesn't like that part of me, I just wasted a big part of my time forming a relationship that will probably go to the gutter now.

Anyways, if sites aren't the answer then I have no idea where to go T_T

The site looked comforting, you can put a lot of information about who you are and what you're looking for, the parts that I normally suck at get taken care of before even talking to the person.

[foxhead556]

yea dude as midnight said online dating sites are trash since they are full of lies.  Hell for all you know you could be chatting with a 50 YO dude or something worse. But yea why dont u do what i did with my GF? I started with another interest and THEN slowly introduced her to anime.

[UruseiNeo]

well that's a fair suggestion.  I like to be devious :D

Still doesn't solve my issue of actually meeting someone :p

[cata]

Take a deep breath, grow some balls and talk to her! Be friendly, smile, eye contact. Don't be a stalker. This is all you need. xD

[UruseiNeo]

Talk to WHO? I haven't met anyone yet!

[cata]

Goddamnit! Aren't you in school? I'm sure there are lots of people there. Oh and make sure you don't miss a chance to meet new people. xD