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Offline Urusei0Yatsura

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Dating tips in general?
« on: August 21, 2011, 11:51:56 AM »
Has anyone got any dating tips? I have no idea how to ask a girl out, date or develop a relationship, this is partly because I've been too scared to try and because I have asperger's syndrome.
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Re: Dating tips in general?
« Reply #1 on: August 21, 2011, 12:47:36 PM »
Go up to a girl you know (but not very well) and ask: hey, wanna go out someday?


I don't know, I like to be blunt x'D

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Re: Dating tips in general?
« Reply #2 on: August 22, 2011, 01:34:52 AM »
Go up to a girl you know (but not very well) and ask: hey, wanna go out someday?

Girl: Yes, I would love to. We can go out in the day pigs fly. Ok?

Read my signature... the second quote. Just go for it. Don't let the anything stop you.
"It is said that only a fool learns from his own mistakes, a wise man from the mistakes of others."-"A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing."
I wonder which one is true!?

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Re: Dating tips in general?
« Reply #3 on: August 22, 2011, 01:57:28 AM »
I know it's scary, and I know rejection hurts like Hell, but all you can do is ask. All she can do is say, "no" (and we're back to hurting like Hell), but you'll live to see another day. Really really.
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Re: Dating tips in general?
« Reply #4 on: August 22, 2011, 02:18:41 AM »
As every1 else is saying all u can pretty much do is walk up to the girl and ask her if she is interested in going out.


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Re: Dating tips in general?
« Reply #5 on: August 22, 2011, 10:59:39 AM »
Read this Quote then read it again. ;)

"Listen kid, love is the only chance for happiness you'll ever get in this life, and if
you're going to let a little thing like rejection stand in your way, baby, you might
as well stay right there on the ground, because people are going to be walking
all over you for the rest of your life."
-The Big Dog from 2 Stupid Dogs

Just remember that 99% of all relationships fail, so your first GF isn't likely to be your last.
So it's good to get some practice asking.  :P
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Re: Dating tips in general?
« Reply #6 on: August 22, 2011, 11:10:47 AM »
Is anyone going to die because they get rejected? Those who say "no" when we ask them out, aren't worth it so just risk them off "the list" and decide who to try next. I don't mean this in the Moroboshi style because no one would want to date you. x'D

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Re: Dating tips in general?
« Reply #7 on: August 22, 2011, 07:01:38 PM »
Lemme tell you something, Urusei0Yatsura, fear is some of the worst enemies you can have while asking a girl out, do not let fear guide your actions

I shall confide you a secret of mine, amigo, there was a time on 2008 when I had a crush on a girl but because I was so shy I wasn't speaking to her then on December I think I realized that I would lose nothing to simply go to her and give her a rose; I went to her and even when I stuttered I gave her a beautiful rose and talked with her; It was a splendid day and I don't regret nothing (Heck, I would later confess my love to her and we became special friends) because I had beaten Phobos, God of Fear

Now, results may vary but that be not a reason to mess this chance on love (pun intended) that would surely rock your planet (another pun intended)

Go for it, Urusei0Yatsura!

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Re: Dating tips in general?
« Reply #8 on: August 23, 2011, 08:13:00 AM »
Some really inspirational stuff coming out of this thread. So know I know how to ask a girl out, where do I meet women?
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Re: Dating tips in general?
« Reply #9 on: August 23, 2011, 11:45:52 AM »
That's hard because I never saw women out of their houses. O.O

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Re: Dating tips in general?
« Reply #10 on: August 24, 2011, 01:02:14 AM »
Wow... cata and sarcasm... deadly combination. ;D
"It is said that only a fool learns from his own mistakes, a wise man from the mistakes of others."-"A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing."
I wonder which one is true!?

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Re: Dating tips in general?
« Reply #11 on: August 24, 2011, 01:41:46 AM »
Some really inspirational stuff coming out of this thread. So know I know how to ask a girl out, where do I meet women?


Well whatever you do, don't do anything Ataru Moroboshi does!   ;D
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Re: Dating tips in general?
« Reply #12 on: August 24, 2011, 01:12:05 PM »
^ Unless you look like Mendou and have a similar bank account.

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Re: Dating tips in general?
« Reply #13 on: August 24, 2011, 02:07:31 PM »
and a private army :DDD
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Re: Dating tips in general?
« Reply #14 on: August 24, 2011, 07:34:13 PM »
Yeah Mendou gets his bmen to harrass women for him!

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